February 22, 2004
There is one place in which one's privacy, intimacy,
integrity and inviolability are guaranteed - one's body, a unique temple
and a familiar territory of sensa and personal history. The torturer
invades, defiles and desecrates this shrine. He does so publicly,
deliberately, repeatedly and, often, sadistically and sexually, with
undisguised pleasure. Hence the all-pervasive, long-lasting, and,
frequently, irreversible effects and outcomes of torture.
In a way, the torture victim's own body is rendered his
worse enemy. It is corporeal agony that compels the sufferer to mutate, his
identity to fragment, his ideals and principles to crumble. The body
becomes an accomplice of the tormentor, an uninterruptible channel of
communication, a treasonous, poisoned territory.
It fosters a humiliating dependency of the abused on the
perpetrator. Bodily needs denied - sleep, toilet, food, water - are wrongly
perceived by the victim as the direct causes of his degradation and
dehumanization. As he sees it, he is rendered bestial not by the sadistic
bullies around him but by his own flesh.
The concept of "body" can easily be extended to "family",
or "home". Torture is often applied to kin and kith, compatriots, or
colleagues. This intends to disrupt the continuity of "surroundings,
habits, appearance, relations with others", as the CIA put it in one of its
manuals. A sense of cohesive self-identity depends crucially on the
familiar and the continuous. By attacking both one's biological body and
one's "social body", the victim's psyche is strained to the point of
dissociation.
Beatrice Patsalides describes this transmogrification thus
in "Ethics of the unspeakable: Torture survivors in psychoanalytic
treatment":
"As the gap between the 'I' and the 'me' deepens,
dissociation and alienation increase. The subject that, under torture, was
forced into the position of pure object has lost his or her sense of
interiority, intimacy, and privacy. Time is experienced now, in the present
only, and perspective - that which allows for a sense of relativity - is
foreclosed. Thoughts and dreams attack the mind and invade the body as if
the protective skin that normally contains our thoughts, gives us space to
breathe in between the thought and the thing being thought about, and
separates between inside and outside, past and present, me and you, was
lost."
Torture robs the victim of the most basic modes of relating
to reality and, thus, is the equivalent of cognitive death. Space and time
are warped by sleep deprivation. The self ("I") is shattered. The tortured
have nothing familiar to hold on to: family, home, personal belongings,
loved ones, language, name. Gradually, they lose their mental resilience
and sense of freedom. They feel alien - unable to communicate, relate,
attach, or empathize with others.
Torture splinters early childhood grandiose narcissistic
fantasies of uniqueness, omnipotence, invulnerability, and impenetrability.
But it enhances the fantasy of merger with an idealized and omnipotent
(though not benign) other - the inflicter of agony. The twin processes of
individuation and separation are reversed.
Torture is the ultimate act of perverted intimacy. The
torturer invades the victim's body, pervades his psyche, and possesses his
mind. Deprived of contact with others and starved for human interactions,
the prey bonds with the predator. "Traumatic bonding", akin to the
Stockholm syndrome, is about hope and the search for meaning in the brutal
and indifferent and nightmarish universe of the torture cell.
The abuser becomes the black hole at the center of the
victim's surrealistic galaxy, sucking in the sufferer's universal need for
solace. The victim tries to "control" his tormentor by becoming one with
him (introjecting him) and by appealing to the monster's presumably dormant
humanity and empathy.
This bonding is especially strong when the torturer and the
tortured form a dyad and "collaborate" in the rituals and acts of torture
(for instance, when the victim is coerced into selecting the torture
implements and the types of torment to be inflicted, or to choose between
two evils).
The psychologist Shirley Spitz offers this powerful
overview of the contradictory nature of torture in a seminar titled "The
Psychology of Torture" (1989):
"Torture is an obscenity in that it joins what is most
private with what is most public. Torture entails all the isolation and
extreme solitude of privacy with none of the usual security embodied
therein ... Torture entails at the same time all the self exposure of the
utterly public with none of its possibilities for camaraderie or shared
experience. (The presence of an all powerful other with whom to merge,
without the security of the other's benign intentions.)
A further obscenity of torture is the inversion it makes of
intimate human relationships. The interrogation is a form of social
encounter in which the normal rules of communicating, of relating, of
intimacy are manipulated. Dependency needs are elicited by the
interrogator, but not so they may be met as in close relationships, but to
weaken and confuse. Independence that is offered in return for 'betrayal'
is a lie. Silence is intentionally misinterpreted either as confirmation of
information or as guilt for 'complicity'.
Torture combines complete humiliating exposure with utter
devastating isolation. The final products and outcome of torture are a
scarred and often shattered victim and an empty display of the fiction of
power."
Obsessed by endless ruminations, demented by pain and a
continuum of sleeplessness - the victim regresses, shedding all but the
most primitive defense mechanisms: splitting, narcissism, dissociation,
projective identification, introjection, and cognitive dissonance. The
victim constructs an alternative world, often suffering from
depersonalization and derealization, hallucinations, ideas of reference,
delusions, and psychotic episodes.
Sometimes the victim comes to crave pain - very much as
self-mutilators do - because it is a proof and a reminder of his
individuated existence otherwise blurred by the incessant torture. Pain
shields the sufferer from disintegration and capitulation. It preserves the
veracity of his unthinkable and unspeakable experiences.
This dual process of the victim's alienation and addiction
to anguish complements the perpetrator's view of his quarry as "inhuman",
or "subhuman". The torturer assumes the position of the sole authority, the
exclusive fount of meaning and interpretation, the source of both evil and
good.
Torture is about reprogramming the victim to succumb to an
alternative exegesis of the world, proffered by the abuser. It is an act of
deep, indelible, traumatic indoctrination. The abused also swallows whole
and assimilates the torturer's negative view of him and often, as a result,
is rendered suicidal, self-destructive, or self-defeating.
Thus, torture has no cut-off date. The sounds, the voices,
the smells, the sensations reverberate long after the episode has ended -
both in nightmares and in waking moments. The victim's ability to trust
other people - i.e., to assume that their motives are at least rational, if
not necessarily benign - has been irrevocably undermined. Social
institutions are perceived as precariously poised on the verge of an
ominous, Kafkaesque mutation. Nothing is either safe, or credible anymore.
Victims typically react by undulating between emotional
numbing and increased arousal: insomnia, irritability, restlessness, and
attention deficits. Recollections of the traumatic events intrude in the
form of dreams, night terrors, flashbacks, and distressing associations.
The tortured develop compulsive rituals to fend off
obsessive thoughts. Other psychological sequelae reported include cognitive
impairment, reduced capacity to learn, memory disorders, sexual
dysfunction, social withdrawal, inability to maintain long-term
relationships, or even mere intimacy, phobias, ideas of reference and
superstitions, delusions, hallucinations, psychotic microepisodes, and
emotional flatness.
Depression and anxiety are very common. These are forms and
manifestations of self-directed aggression. The sufferer rages at his own
victimhood and resulting multiple dysfunction. He feels shamed by his new
disabilities and responsible, or even guilty, somehow, for his predicament
and the dire consequences borne by his nearest and dearest. His sense of
self-worth and self-esteem are crippled.
In a nutshell, torture victims suffer from a post-traumatic
stress disorder (PTSD). Their strong feelings of anxiety, guilt, and shame
are also typical of victims of childhood abuse, domestic violence, and
rape. They feel anxious because the perpetrator's behavior is seemingly
arbitrary and unpredictable - or mechanically and inhumanly regular.
They feel guilty and disgraced because, to restore a
semblance of order to their shattered world and a modicum of dominion over
their chaotic life, they need to transform themselves into the cause of
their own degradation and the accomplices of their tormentors.
The CIA, in its "Human Resource Exploitation Training
Manual - 1983" (reprinted in the April 1997 issue of Harper's Magazine),
summed up the theory of coercion thus:
"The purpose of all coercive techniques is to induce
psychological regression in the subject by bringing a superior outside
force to bear on his will to resist. Regression is basically a loss of
autonomy, a reversion to an earlier behavioral level. As the subject
regresses, his learned personality traits fall away in reverse
chronological order. He begins to lose the capacity to carry out the
highest creative activities, to deal with complex situations, or to cope
with stressful interpersonal relationships or repeated frustrations."
Inevitably, in the aftermath of torture, its victims feel
helpless and powerless. This loss of control over one's life and body is
manifested physically in impotence, attention deficits, and insomnia. This
is often exacerbated by the disbelief many torture victims encounter,
especially if they are unable to produce scars, or other "objective" proof
of their ordeal. Language cannot communicate such an intensely private
experience as pain.
Spitz makes the following observation:
"Pain is also unsharable in that it is resistant to
language ... All our interior states of consciousness: emotional,
perceptual, cognitive and somatic can be described as having an object in
the external world ... This affirms our capacity to move beyond the
boundaries of our body into the external, sharable world. This is the space
in which we interact and communicate with our environment. But when we
explore the interior state of physical pain we find that there is no object
'out there' - no external, referential content. Pain is not of, or for,
anything. Pain is. And it draws us away from the space of interaction, the
sharable world, inwards. It draws us into the boundaries of our body."
Bystanders resent the tortured because they make them feel
guilty and ashamed for having done nothing to prevent the atrocity. The
victims threaten their sense of security and their much-needed belief in
predictability, justice, and rule of law. The victims, on their part, do
not believe that it is possible to effectively communicate to "outsiders"
what they have been through. The torture chambers are "another galaxy".
This is how Auschwitz was described by the author K. Zetnik in his
testimony in the Eichmann trial in Jerusalem in 1961.
Kenneth Pope in "Torture", a chapter he wrote for the
"Encyclopedia of Women and Gender: Sex Similarities and Differences and the
Impact of Society on Gender", quotes Harvard psychiatrist Judith Herman:
"It is very tempting to take the side of the perpetrator.
All the perpetrator asks is that the bystander do nothing. He appeals to
the universal desire to see, hear, and speak no evil. The victim, on the
contrary, asks the bystander to share the burden of pain. The victim
demands action, engagement, and remembering."
But, more often, continued attempts to repress fearful
memories result in psychosomatic illnesses (conversion). The victim wishes
to forget the torture, to avoid re-experiencing the often life threatening
abuse and to shield his human environment from the horrors. In conjunction
with the victim's pervasive distrust, this is frequently interpreted as
hypervigilance, or even paranoia. It seems that the victims can't win.
Torture is forever.
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