June 8, 2002
Dr. Vaknin is author of of the informative book, Malignant
Self Love - Narcissism Revisited. He also edits various mental
health categories on Open Directory, Suite101, Go.Com and
SearchEurope.com. While his doctorate is not in mental health,
this well-informed author clearly did his homework and writes from
experience. Dr. Vaknin's CV is (link no longer available) published
here. His book, and much more, is available in hard copy or
download on his main
web site (link no longer available). .
Dr. Irene
EDITED 2/09. Unfortunately, while the content itself stands on its own
in helping people understand narcissism, the writer's credibility may
be questionable.
For example, see here: (links no longer available) |
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There is one place in which one's privacy, intimacy, integrity and
inviolability are guaranteed - one's body, a unique temple and a familiar
territory of sensa and personal history. The torturer invades, defiles and
desecrates this shrine. He does so publicly, deliberately, repeatedly and,
often, sadistically and sexually, with undisguised pleasure. Hence the
all-pervasive, long-lasting, and, frequently, irreversible effects and
outcomes of torture.
In a way, the torture victim's own body is rendered his worse enemy. It
is corporeal agony that compels the sufferer to mutate, his identity to
fragment, his ideals and principles to crumble. The body becomes an
accomplice of the tormentor, an uninterruptible channel of communication, a
treasonous, poisoned territory.
It fosters a humiliating dependency of the abused on the perpetrator.
Bodily needs denied - sleep, toilet, food, water - are wrongly perceived by
the victim as the direct causes of his degradation and dehumanization. As
he sees it, he is rendered bestial not by the sadistic bullies around him
but by his own flesh.
The concept of "body" can easily be extended to "family", or "home".
Torture is often applied to kin and kith, compatriots, or colleagues. This
intends to disrupt the continuity of "surroundings, habits, appearance,
relations with others", as the CIA put it in one of its manuals. A sense of
cohesive self-identity depends crucially on the familiar and the
continuous. By attacking both one's biological body and one's "social
body", the victim's psyche is strained to the point of dissociation.
Beatrice Patsalides describes this transmogrification thus in "Ethics of
the
unspeakable: Torture survivors in psychoanalytic treatment":
"As the gap between the 'I' and the 'me' deepens, dissociation and
alienation increase. The subject that, under torture, was forced into the
position of pure object has lost his or her sense of interiority, intimacy,
and privacy. Time is experienced now, in the present only, and perspective
- that which allows for a sense of relativity - is foreclosed. Thoughts and
dreams attack the mind and invade the body as if the protective skin that
normally contains our thoughts, gives us space to breathe in between the
thought and the thing being thought about, and separates between inside and
outside, past and present, me and you, was lost."
Torture robs the victim of the most basic modes of relating to reality
and, thus, is the equivalent of cognitive death. Space and time are warped
by sleep deprivation. The self ("I") is shattered. The tortured have
nothing familiar to hold on to: family, home, personal belongings, loved
ones, language, name. Gradually, they lose their mental resilience and
sense of freedom. They feel alien - unable to communicate, relate, attach,
or empathize with others.
Torture splinters early childhood grandiose narcissistic fantasies of
uniqueness, omnipotence, invulnerability, and impenetrability. But it
enhances the fantasy of merger with an idealized and omnipotent (though not
benign) other - the inflicter of agony. The twin processes of
individuation and separation are reversed.
Torture is the ultimate act of perverted intimacy. The torturer invades
the victim's body, pervades his psyche, and possesses his mind. Deprived of
contact with others and starved for human interactions, the prey bonds with
the predator. "Traumatic bonding", akin to the Stockholm syndrome, is about
hope and the search for meaning in the brutal and indifferent and
nightmarish universe of the torture cell.
The abuser becomes the black hole at the center of the victim's
surrealistic galaxy, sucking in the sufferer's universal need for solace.
The victim tries to "control" his tormentor by becoming one with him (introjecting
him) and by appealing to the monster's presumably dormant humanity and
empathy.
This bonding is especially strong when the torturer and the tortured
form a dyad and "collaborate" in the rituals and acts of torture (for
instance, when the victim is coerced into selecting the torture implements
and the types of torment to be inflicted, or to choose between two evils).
The psychologist Shirley Spitz offers this powerful overview of the
contradictory nature of torture in a seminar titled "The Psychology of
Torture" (1989):
"Torture is an obscenity in that it joins what is most private with what
is most public. Torture entails all the isolation and extreme solitude of
privacy with none of the usual security embodied therein ... Torture
entails at the same time all the self exposure of the utterly public with
none of its possibilities for camaraderie or shared experience. (The
presence of an all powerful other with whom to merge, without the security
of the other's benign intentions.)
A further obscenity of torture is the inversion it makes of intimate
human relationships. The interrogation is a form of social encounter in
which the normal rules of communicating, of relating, of intimacy are
manipulated. Dependency needs are elicited by the interrogator, but not so
they may be met as in close relationships, but to weaken and confuse.
Independence that is offered in return for "betrayal" is a lie. Silence is
intentionally misinterpreted either as confirmation of information or as
guilt for 'complicity'.
Torture combines complete humiliating exposure with utter devastating
isolation. The final products and outcome of torture are a scarred and
often shattered victim and an empty display of the fiction of power."
Obsessed by endless ruminations, demented by pain and a continuum of
sleeplessness - the victim regresses, shedding all but the most primitive
defense mechanisms: splitting, narcissism, dissociation, projective
identification, introjection, and cognitive dissonance. The victim
constructs an alternative world, often suffering from depersonalization and
derealization, hallucinations, ideas of reference, delusions, and psychotic
episodes.
Sometimes the victim comes to crave pain - very much as self-mutilators
do - because it is a proof and a reminder of his individuated existence
otherwise blurred by the incessant torture. Pain shields the sufferer from
disintegration and capitulation. It preserves the veracity of his
unthinkable and unspeakable experiences.
This dual process of the victim's alienation and addiction to anguish
complements the perpetrator's view of his quarry as "inhuman", or
"subhuman". The torturer assumes the position of the sole authority, the
exclusive fount of meaning and interpretation, the source of both evil and
good.
Torture is about reprogramming the victim to succumb to an alternative
exegesis of the world, proffered by the abuser. It is an act of deep,
indelible, traumatic indoctrination. The abused also swallows whole and
assimilates the torturer's negative view of him and often, as a result, is
rendered suicidal, self-destructive, or self-defeating.
Thus, torture has no cutoff date. The sounds, the voices, the smells,
the sensations reverberate long after the episode has ended - both in
nightmares and in waking moments. The victim's ability to trust other
people - i.e., to assume that their motives are at least rational, if not
necessarily benign - has been irrevocably undermined. Social institutions
are perceived as precariously poised on the verge of an ominous, Kafkaesque
mutation. Nothing is either safe, or credible anymore.
Victims typically react by undulating between emotional numbing and
increased arousal: insomnia, irritability, restlessness, and attention
deficits. Recollections of the traumatic events intrude in the form of
dreams, night terrors, flashbacks, and distressing associations.
The tortured develop compulsive rituals to fend off obsessive thoughts.
Other psychological sequelae reported include cognitive impairment, reduced
capacity to learn, memory disorders, sexual dysfunction, social withdrawal,
inability to maintain long-term relationships, or even mere intimacy,
phobias, ideas of reference and superstitions, delusions, hallucinations,
psychotic microepisodes, and emotional flatness.
Depression and anxiety are very common. These are forms and
manifestations of self-directed aggression. The sufferer rages at his own
victimhood and resulting multiple dysfunction. He feels shamed by his new
disabilities and responsible, or even guilty, somehow, for his predicament
and the dire consequences borne by his nearest and dearest. His sense of
self-worth and self-esteem are crippled.
In a nutshell, torture victims suffer from a post-traumatic stress
disorder (PTSD). Their strong feelings of anxiety, guilt, and shame are
also typical of victims of childhood abuse, domestic violence, and rape.
They feel anxious because the perpetrator's behavior is seemingly arbitrary
and unpredictable - or mechanically and inhumanly regular.
They feel guilty and disgraced because, to restore a semblance of order
to their shattered world and a modicum of dominion over their chaotic life,
they need to transform themselves into the cause of their own degradation
and the accomplices of their tormentors.
The CIA, in its "Human Resource Exploitation Training Manual - 1983"
(reprinted in the April 1997 issue of Harper's Magazine), summed up the
theory of coercion thus:
"The purpose of all coercive techniques is to induce psychological
regression in the subject by bringing a superior outside force to bear on
his will to resist. Regression is basically a loss of autonomy, a reversion
to an earlier behavioral level. As the subject regresses, his learned
personality traits fall away in reverse chronological order. He begins to
lose the capacity to carry out the highest creative activities, to deal
with complex situations, or to cope with stressful interpersonal
relationships or repeated frustrations."
Inevitably, in the aftermath of torture, its victims feel helpless and
powerless. This loss of control over one's life and body is manifested
physically in impotence, attention deficits, and insomnia. This is often
exacerbated by the disbelief many torture victims encounter, especially if
they are unable to produce scars, or other "objective" proof of their
ordeal. Language cannot communicate such an intensely private experience as
pain.
Spitz makes the following observation:
"Pain is also unsharable in that it is resistant to language ... All our
interior states of consciousness: emotional, perceptual, cognitive and
somatic can be described as having an object in the external world ... This
affirms our capacity to move beyond the boundaries of our body into the
external, sharable world. This is the space in which we interact and
communicate with our environment. But when we explore the interior state of
physical pain we find that there is no object "out there" - no external,
referential content. Pain is not of, or for, anything. Pain is. And it
draws us away from the space of interaction, the sharable world, inwards.
It draws us into the boundaries of our body."
Bystanders resent the tortured because they make them feel guilty and
ashamed for having done nothing to prevent the atrocity. The victims
threaten their sense of security and their much-needed belief in
predictability, justice, and rule of law. The victims, on their part, do
not believe that it is possible to effectively communicate to "outsiders"
what they have been through. The torture chambers are "another galaxy".
This is how Auschwitz was described by the author K. Zetnik in his
testimony in the Eichmann trial in Jerusalem in 1961.
Kenneth Pope in "Torture", a chapter he wrote for the "Encyclopedia of
Women and Gender: Sex Similarities and Differences and the Impact of
Society on Gender", quotes Harvard psychiatrist Judith Herman:
"It is very tempting to take the side of the perpetrator. All the
perpetrato r asks is that the bystander do nothing. He appeals to the
universal desire to see, hear, and speak no evil. The victim, on the
contrary, asks the bystander to share the burden of pain. The victim
demands action, engagement, and remembering."
But, more often, continued attempts to repress fearful memories result
in psychosomatic illnesses (conversion). The victim wishes to forget the
torture, to avoid re-experiencing the often life threatening abuse and to
shield his human environment from the horrors. In conjunction with the
victim's pervasive distrust, this is frequently interpreted as
hypervigilance, or even paranoia. It seems that the victims can't win.
Torture is forever.
Once again, THANKS Dr. Sam! Doc
Copyright 2003 Dr. Vaknin, reprinted by
permission.
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