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Codependent Love Pages

Jogging is very beneficial. It's good for your legs and your 
feet. It's also very good for the ground. It makes it feel 
needed. - Charles M. Schulz

Learn about the difference between love and infatuation; why codependent people are inclined to get into abusive relationships, and more...


My need for you is strong.
I think of you and my heart races,
My body trembles, and my spirit soars.
I try to fight the craving for you,
But I know the cause is lost.
I must have you again.

I fear that the world will someday know
About my weakness for you.
I know that if I go to you
For one more taste of you,
My guilt will overcome me
And a heavy penance will be paid.

But my resolve weakens and crumbles.
I go to you, I take you and hold you.
The wonderful smell of you fills my senses.
This is insane, why can't I resist you?
I know that any other can have you
If they but pay the price.
Ahhhhhhh, chocolate. 

Contributed by Gwen Gamble

Required Reading for Love Addicts:

Click on the Link to get the book from Amazon.Com

Susan Peabody's Addiction to Love : Overcoming Obsession and Dependency in Relationships

Note: All the Cloud & Townsend books have a great message but are written from a Religious-Christian perspective. Not for everybody.

Cloud & Townsend's Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't

Dr. Henry Cloud's Changes That Heal : How to Understand Your Past to Ensure a Healthier Future

John Townsend's Hiding from Love : How to Change the Withdrawal Patterns That Isolate and Imprison You For those who feel so burnt out, they don't even try...

factoid: The average chocolate bar has 8 insects' legs in it.



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